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Pragmatic, reserved and a deep thinker who loves family, sports especially football where am married to two wives: the first, AC Milan who has my loyalty and the second wife, Manchester United who has all my undying love and pampering, lifestyle and society parties. Need I say the law is more than a profession but a lifestyle for me.

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The man you should be is the man who never bulks on his responsibilities. The man you should be is that man that does his job without being told. You should be that man whom integrity is his mantra, the man whose words are not just reliable but dependable. You should be that man who accepts his faults and makes amend. The man that is never too big to say sorry or admit a wrong; you should be big enough to admit that your actions or inactions have cost the other person and show that you sincerely regret it.

The man you ought to be is the man that is like a pillar – strong, available, dependable, holding things together, never complaining, firm, yet never calling attention to the job it does. Yes, a man is just like the pillar of a house. They are not there for fun though one can almost overlook them but they are what is holding all the weight and preventing a catastrophe of enormous proportion. Most times, they never get a “thank you,” going unnoticed, yet they revel in being the dominant assuring singular protection. Therefore, be that man who is a warrior for people he loves. Be the benefactor and the shield from every storm.

You need to be that man who is not too tough to show his limitations. We are human and we should never hide our emotions when we ought to show them. The society teaches you that when you are hurting or passionate over a thing, as a man, you hide it else you will be dubbed a sissy; well, that is a flagrant lie! Only strong men know how to be weak! Hence, be the man that tells his children how much he loves them and how they give him pride. Express deep love to your wife even when you do not feel like and express your fears, pains and hurts to her as well. Hiding those does not make you a macho!

Be the man who follows his heart, not trends or what his friends dictates. It is all right to seek counsel but be that man that can form an opinion through self-belief. Be confident, be assured, be a devotee, and be consistent. Be a man of impact. Be a selfless man who knows his priorities. Be the man that is a leader.