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Pragmatic, reserved and a deep thinker who loves family, sports especially football where am married to two wives: the first, AC Milan who has my loyalty and the second wife, Manchester United who has all my undying love and pampering, lifestyle and society parties. Need I say the law is more than a profession but a lifestyle for me.

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KISSING FROGS

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There is a popular saying that “a lady has to kiss many FROGS before she gets to her PRINCE CHARMING.” However, I ask myself: really? Do ladies actually have to kiss many frogs to get to their ‘PRINCE CHARMING’? What qualifies a man to be called a PRINCE CHARMING? Does a PRINCE CHARMING really exist or is it just an artifice?

I know as women, we battle with lots of fantasies especially when it comes to what an ideal man should be after all, I am one. However, in my candid opinion, I do not agree with the saying that a woman has to kiss many frogs on the journey to happiness or fulfilment. Whatever we do as mature ladies is a choice we opt to make. Therefore, the number of frogs you choose to kiss…is absolutely your choice.

In addition, there is nothing like a prince on a white horse riding out from nowhere to sweep you off your feet; those are just the creative imagination of some artiste willing to sell his or her work. It is purely illusory.

Any average guy can be our very own ‘PRINCE CHARMING’ if we let him. Nevertheless, before that happens, we all have to come to term with the fact that we cannot have it all and no one can ever be perfect. A seemingly perfect man is a man with so many secrets and a dynamite waiting to explode.

Consequently, ladies have to stop looking for that tall, handsome, wealthy dude with six packs with the grace of Mr World looking like he just walked right out of Playgirl Magazine when the love that you search for is in the man with a hunchback, poor, and short. We are not perfect ourselves so why expect that from another mere mortal.

What I expect any lady to look out for is a man who is intelligent enough to understand you, caring enough to feel your pain, who is educated and ambitious enough to make it enough (NOT too ambitious to the extent of being desperate to do anything it takes to amass wealth). A man, who believes in himself, believes in you and genuinely loves and respects you. Physical appearance and wealth is just a bonus, not a necessity.

Most importantly as a woman, NEVER EVER, under any circumstances condone any form of physical abuse from a man no matter how much you love him. Any man who is weak enough to raise his hands at you is not worth a second chance or feelings – do not be SENTIMENTAL…never give a man the power to make you feel worthless; we are queens and we deserve every love and respect a man can give. Nonetheless, it starts with us! We have to love and respect ourselves first before we can be accorded it. These includes not lessening our pride as women by kissing every frog that comes our way in the hope of whiling away time, we must learn to exhibit restraint and preserve ourselves for that special man whom we will make our ‘PRINCE CHARMING.’ We must refrain from kissing too many frogs before it gets to the point where even the FROGS start to shun us.

Life is what you make of it, so take a step back to re-evaluate, take a step forward renewed…with confidence and hope. See the best in people for everyone has a hidden potential and most treasures need to be sought to be found.

To all the frogs, we have all kissed at one point in our lives, Adios! As we step into the world renewed, I say cheers to finding and making our PRINCE CHARMING!

I hope you enjoy this,

MRS .A.