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Pragmatic, reserved and a deep thinker who loves family, sports especially football where am married to two wives: the first, AC Milan who has my loyalty and the second wife, Manchester United who has all my undying love and pampering, lifestyle and society parties. Need I say the law is more than a profession but a lifestyle for me.

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Most times things do not add up in our lives. They just do not turn out as planned or expected by us even when we have meticulously put in place all the necessary details to deliver the desired result. According to personal experiences, I have realised that no matter how result oriented one might be, it does not assure a return of intended proportion; in fact, out of every hundred expectation, only a meagre two is likely to turn out as envisaged. The others go way off radar leaving us surprised. Is that not the supremacy of God? He alone knows from the beginning the end and the end from the beginning.

For this reason, very often we feel so disappointed and utterly overcome by despair from feeling powerless and incapable of turning the invariables in our favour. Trust me when I say this because I am chief victim of capricious circumstances and unpredictable toll of events. Truly, I have hoped, expected, and been anxious over all sorts of desires and wants; making all form of entreaties either to God or man and being let down with devastating effect leaving me more with a burdened heart and a concealed sad face behind the presented happy face. These moments leaves me face flat on the floor with sadness from failures that are worrying, causing me to begin to consider the words of those who have no confidence in me.

However, growing up these last few months especially with you my friends having a relationship with you, which I hold dearly in my heart has revealed rather exceedingly how much things change in a twinkle of an eye. I know you will be wondering how you have affected that and what role you have played but I will explain to you just how you have made me grow. What I am saying is that because of you, I have punctiliously paid attention to issues that affect me and I have understood more than I ever did, which has allowed me to take cognisance of significant changes no matter how minute.

Certainly, life has screwed me over a few times and I have been served sometimes colder than a dog’s nose when I deserved far more than I got after laboriously putting in consistent efforts for reward yet getting nothing more than disappointments but as the saying goes, the end truly justifies the means. Now, I realise that nothing is ever as it seems. Most times, when you doggedly fix your heart on something, and it turns out unfavourable, the imprudence of man limits our understanding.

There have been times one thinks a particular individual is the ideal one after they fit the bill of expectation. However, all attempts to lure them over proves abortive due to either our desperation or eagerness; blinded to realising that we are not compatible or that what we feel are superficialities and nothing genuine, we cast reasonableness into obscurity. Even if we ever got them, we end up losing them for lack of adequately valuing them or insufficiency to accommodate their flaws. The way the relationships go wrong and take a dive to unpalatable situations makes us feel we will never find the true lover and at that point, all hope is lost especially when they ditch us. It crushes our hearts when our admired friend tells us they love someone else other than us making us feel rejected. In spite of this, once we find a compatible match, we soon forget the heartbreak and the way they fit into our lives makes us wonder what we were searching for all along. Then we understand why we have been with the wrong ones.

In the pursuit of the excellent things of life, we strive to achieve a blissful way of living contriving to succeed through ways we find acceptable. This decision makes our mind stray from the essential skills we ought to put in and chase the prosperous fields that we are unapt in, which brings stagnation and consequent lack. At this stage, every man loses hope for they say a hungry man is an angry man striving only to live even when not productively. When a door opens that change our tales bringing about those tremendous things that adds class and substance, then we begin to understand that every toil, lack, and pain that brought disgrace and shame was preparing us to manage the life of abundance that awaited us.

I also know that there are times when we do not make the wrong choice yet we end up with massive discontent. These times bring the biggest frustrations when things just do not work out for us as planned even when others with the same predicaments come out with better results and it becomes difficult to understand.

I mean I know of times when you apply with the same documents your brother got his own visa with and you get outright denial. Similarly, in situations where you have contributed profitably to the company’s growth better than a colleague has, rightfully expecting promotion only to discover the colleague got the reward. At this point, nothing makes sense and one begins to feel unfortunate. However, look at it down the line, you now own your own your company with string of employees and now own a private jet with presidents offering invitations. Finally, you understand that life prepared you for something better.

Famz, my point precisely is that there are more to everything than meets the eyes. You might want it all now and believe me I understand that you even deserve it more but that it does not happen now does not mean you are useless or nothing is ever going to work as you plan! If you can just breathe under water, keep putting the problem in front of you so you can tackle it rather than on your head for it to weigh you down, you will realise there is a time and a place for everything. Continually wet your appetite for the dreams you carry in your mind and soon enough when it all falls into place, soon, you will understand why it had to take so long!