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Pragmatic, reserved and a deep thinker who loves family, sports especially football where am married to two wives: the first, AC Milan who has my loyalty and the second wife, Manchester United who has all my undying love and pampering, lifestyle and society parties. Need I say the law is more than a profession but a lifestyle for me.

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Generally, we think that jealousy is a bad trait that we must eschew. In fact, it is seen as a vice that should not be shown. The perception about jealousy is that of covetousness causing distrust towards the one who is considered envious of the possession of another. However, I beg to differ on this. For me, I think jealousy is a good attribute especially if effectively channelled to making one better by achieving those things, which are desirous. To be jealous to me is sometimes an amazing thing because it makes you realise others are thriving in areas where you are aspiring to and at the end, it proves that thing is achievable.

To buttress my point, I like to remind us that God described himself as a jealous God. Therefore, knowing that God is the true God, the only righteous and holy with no blemishes, I believe that he will not give himself a bad attribute. It is from this that I derive my stance that jealousy is a good thing. In fact, I am pleasurably jealous of all the good things of life and remarkably protective over the things that give me so much joy and passion. When it comes to the things that matter most to me, I am ecstatically shielding over them like a lioness over his cubs. Consequently, I want to share some of the things that make me green with envy.

I get jealous when my good friends get married to their heartthrob especially when their story is one of indubitable love notably those who without a soothsayer, one can see the love that exists between them. Those that I have been a part of their story so much so that I know the storms they withered and how entrenched their love has swollen despite all odds. Those who have conquered all obstacles be it family, tradition, or personal hindrances. Above all when I know, my friend has married a virgin in this world where most women are a pilgrimage for men. This jealousy fills me with happiness of the possibility of finding my better half and growing grey with her.

Now when it comes to matters that affect my mother, I am filled with seething jealousy. This is mainly because she is my earthly god and I do not joke about anything that concerns her. I am jealous when she gives others her time and attention or resources. I get jealous when someone shows love to her or takes her time rather than spending it with me. Although sometimes I am far away from her, I am green when I think of what she might be doing. I even get jealous of siblings showing her the same love they are entitled to as well. As mush as I am filled with unspeakable joy when others show her veritable love, because she deserves the world itself, I still get jealous. If you as much as make her cry, you had better go hide your whole family!

The peak of jealousy ascends in me when and if I fall in love with a woman. Have I told you when am in love I am a sucker and an unrepentant lover? Therefore, better think twice before doing anything with that woman. For God’s sake, she is the woman God has made for me, the one who I am her crown and she my treasure. Why will you want to take her for lunch because she is your colleague at work? Did she tell you am to busy to do that for her? Why will you wink at her or tell her how beautiful she is? Do you not know that I invest my every penny, time, and resources on her? In fact, I endlessly tell her how wondrously beautiful she is and how she inspires the love of Christ in me. There is no day I do not look into her eyes and plant a kiss on her that warms her soul.

If you must know, I work her body well before she steps out. Hence, mind your business and find a woman to waste your flattery. Let me also tell you that because of that woman you see that is amazing and impregnable, I can commit the most unwholesome crimes. Better, do not park to give her a lift when she is at the junction, she is either exercising, sightseeing or waiting for me to come pick her even if I do not have a car, I will carry her on my back. Yes because of her, I will bring the ‘eru-iku’ out if you as much as look at her carnally talk less of touching her on any part of her body, which is my paradise.

I am jealous when it comes to my properties too. I used my money to buy them so when you want to use any of them even if it is my remote control; you had better seek for permission. They are loyal to me.

In short, if anything I like likes you, you are not safe from my jealousy because I will be exceedingly jealous of you and you had better watch your back. Please do not blame me after all God is a jealous God not because he is in short supply of human to love but because every one matters to him and he will not bear it that any other thing takes you away from him. Hence, who am I not to be jealous?

I have jealously written this!