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7 TYPES OF PEOPLE YOU SHOULD AVOID HAVING A RELATIONSHIP WITH.

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The greedy lover: These types of lovers are a no. We all know that with love comes giving and sharing with a charitable heart. These types of lovers are just too frugal and no matter what, will not share a thing with you. They never want to spend their money or time on you; but do not mind taking yours. Essentially, they take everything from you and give you nothing.

The unselective giver: Now, these types are almost the direct opposite of the greedy lover. They give indiscriminately to all and anyone they can without holding back only because they want to be respected and loved. As much as this is an amazing attribute, the sad truth is as their lover, you are not special. They do not attach any special feeling or importance to the recipient but are only addicted to the art of giving itself in search for adoration.

The insecure lover: The art of loving involves being jealous over our most cherished possession. However, there is a problem when our lover lacks confidence and feels so unsafe once we are in the company of another. They become so grouchy, tailing our moves and choke us. This insecurity becomes a major problem as it leads to unnecessary frictions, which often gets violent. Once this happens, they destroy us and leave us with all forms of embarrassments trailing us.

The unappreciative lover: These types of lovers are the worse; they drain us emotionally, physically and frustrate our every effort with their churlish attitude. No matter what we do for them or put in to make our relationship work, they never appreciate us. Loving them is like pouring water into a basket. You hear them say things like ‘what is it you have done that has never been done before?’

The unforgiving lover: These are the most dangerous types of people to love. When we offend them and do all in our wherewithal to seek for their forgiveness, they remain strong in their resolution for vengeance. In fact, some of them are secretive when we offend them; not pointing out our faults and acting like all is while when they are actually planning a way to get back at us, which often leads to the demise of the relationship.

The doubting Thomas: No matter how hard you try to convince these types of lovers, persuading them is impossible. They are always sceptical and suspicious of all you do and say not necessarily, because you have pervaded your world with lies, but because they have a reservation and disbelief to everything.

The control freak: These types of lovers always want to exercise dominance over us by restraining and constraining everything about us. They are concerned only with dishing out instructions and expecting it carried out in clear terms as ordered. Our opinions or feelings never count and expressing ourselves is an abomination. All they enjoy is being the main influence to our existence and flouting it is a direct affront to their authority.

ADEKANYE ADEYINKA OLAJIDE.