HOW TO BE THE MAN EVERY WOMAN WANTS.

Be aware of her body language. Pay keen attention to her expressions and take cognisance of every detail her body language might be expressing. Women always have a way of revealing their mood, mind, and desires more through expressions than by uttering words.

Be unpredictable. No one likes someone that is transparent. Being capricious brings about an aura of endless possibilities and expectations.

Find the little things that are romantic and act on them. It is every woman’s dream to have a man who can read her every desire and succinctly interpret her by making her a reality. Sweep her off her feet by doing the little things that count.

Ask meaningful questions. As a man, you should be concerned with things that interest your woman. So ask her questions on her goals, plans, and ambitions. Do not ask questions like how old are you? Women quickly deem this as a shallow way of reasoning.

Do not be sexually aggressive. It is important to be sexual but you have to be charming and alluring with it. Do not be too pushy and fussy about it else you pass the wrong message and appear lustful. So rather than look at her breast line and stare endlessly at her seductive body, praise her look and let her feel comfortable with you and not harassed by your presence.

Never brag about yourself. This is a sign of insecurity and it shows you feel intimidated by her; after all empty barrels make the loudest noise. Exhume confidence and not pride and she will discern your worth herself.

Do not use the same old pick-up lines. Nothing annoys a woman more than the usual textbook pick-up lines; they are a cliché to her. Be creative, spontaneous, and direct when expressing you without mincing words. It is always better to let the occasion dictate rather than relay already crammed lines that may be out of place at a given time.

Be a good listener and be attentive. Every woman wants a man that pays attention to all they say, and who listens carefully enough to read between the lines even at unspoken words. It is rude to interrupt conversations or be distracted with other things like phone or TV while your woman is talking. Listening and paying attention shows her she is important and she will always want to be with you.

Have clear goals and ambitions. No woman likes to be with a clueless, helpless, and uninterested man. Be a goal getter and be purposeful while making your aims and objectives clear so that she can either buy into it or realise you are different from her desired man.

Be responsible. Responsibility is a very necessary trait for any real man. You must dress responsibly and be accountable for all we do. One must also be a man of integrity by saying only what we mean to say and meaning what we say.

Be caring. This involves showing genuine interest in the things that concerns your woman and encouraging her.

ADEKANYE ADEYINKA OLAJIDE.