Be aware of her body
language. Pay keen attention to her expressions and take cognisance of every
detail her body language might be expressing. Women always have a way of
revealing their mood, mind, and desires more through expressions than by
uttering words.
Be unpredictable. No
one likes someone that is transparent. Being capricious brings about an aura of
endless possibilities and expectations.
Find the little things
that are romantic and act on them. It is every woman’s dream to have a man who
can read her every desire and succinctly interpret her by making her a reality.
Sweep her off her feet by doing the little things that count.
Ask meaningful
questions. As a man, you should be concerned with things that interest your
woman. So ask her questions on her goals, plans, and ambitions. Do not ask
questions like how old are you? Women quickly deem this as a shallow way of
reasoning.
Do not be sexually
aggressive. It is important to be sexual but you have to be charming and
alluring with it. Do not be too pushy and fussy about it else you pass the
wrong message and appear lustful. So rather than look at her breast line and
stare endlessly at her seductive body, praise her look and let her feel
comfortable with you and not harassed by your presence.
Never brag about
yourself. This is a sign of insecurity and it shows you feel intimidated by
her; after all empty barrels make the loudest noise. Exhume confidence and not
pride and she will discern your worth herself.
Do not use the same old
pick-up lines. Nothing annoys a woman more than the usual textbook pick-up
lines; they are a cliché to her. Be creative, spontaneous, and direct when
expressing you without mincing words. It is always better to let the occasion
dictate rather than relay already crammed lines that may be out of place at a
given time.
Be a good listener and
be attentive. Every woman wants a man that pays attention to all they say, and
who listens carefully enough to read between the lines even at unspoken words.
It is rude to interrupt conversations or be distracted with other things like
phone or TV while your woman is talking. Listening and paying attention shows
her she is important and she will always want to be with you.
Have clear goals and
ambitions. No woman likes to be with a clueless, helpless, and uninterested
man. Be a goal getter and be purposeful while making your aims and objectives
clear so that she can either buy into it or realise you are different from her
desired man.
Be responsible.
Responsibility is a very necessary trait for any real man. You must dress
responsibly and be accountable for all we do. One must also be a man of
integrity by saying only what we mean to say and meaning what we say.
Be caring. This
involves showing genuine interest in the things that concerns your woman and
encouraging her.
ADEKANYE ADEYINKA
OLAJIDE.
Nice one bro.more grease to ur elbow
ReplyDeleteOn point
ReplyDeleteI hope to God this does work, somehow, I can imagine having every woman want me. *winks*
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