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Pragmatic, reserved and a deep thinker who loves family, sports especially football where am married to two wives: the first, AC Milan who has my loyalty and the second wife, Manchester United who has all my undying love and pampering, lifestyle and society parties. Need I say the law is more than a profession but a lifestyle for me.

Adekanye Adeyinka Olajide.

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My mum read my publication on "What A Woman Wants" and she seemed to like it while also requesting to have my idea of what a man wants as well. A challenge I've decided to take head-on which is the ultimate reason for this sequel.

It won't be a fallacy to say that men are a little bit less complicated than our female species. They are the gender with far more direct and practical approach to things, most often spontaneous and sometimes irrational far beyond comprehension. They are the most egocentric being created by God and take everything in the strength of their type either as a challenge, competition or support!

I will not be wrong to say thus that a man never wants, he NEEDS. He needs to feel like a BOSS more like an overLORD. Men are naturally designed to direct affairs so we like to be in charge, a domineering force. In the real sense, we don't like to be faulted or questioned: that's where the ego emanates from. The man needs the preferential treatment by all cost and that's why men like to have special seats, hold the remote, etc. So make a man feel like he owns you and he will empty his resources for you without him knowing.

Women think they covet attention most? But men are the prime attention seekers. Relegate a man's place in your life and see how desperately he will do all to be the numero uno. For a man, it is his fundamental right to be cherished and made to feel responsible even for your reasoning. He needs to be credited for your success stories though don't invite him when you've failed otherwise you'd hear things like "if only you had listened to me"

Men are also the weakest emotionally but we use our ego and physical strength to bully our way through the slightest show of feeling when we actually hurt the most. That's why most men who cannot handle their emotions cross the line of being jealous to being insecure and hence possessive. A man needs you to in the multitude of your company with other men, wink at him, blow him kisses and just do all to acknowledge we are your man' it boosts our ego. Don't mind us when we shrug it off; it actually gives us butterflies too. If not we get jealous. After all, God is Jealous of us too if we worship another god so we have a legitimate claim to that.

Men love to be pampered. Only that we want to be treated like school kids too. Take off our socks and shoes, loosen our ties and shirts, have a warm water running and bathe us even when you can, feed us with the most sumptuous meals plus most importantly, made love to in the sweetest of ways. Only then can we listen to your most boring gossips yet smile and even share some of ours with you.

Above all, a man needs a peaceful home to come to with a beautiful wife to meet his needs and children who already have their homework done with their mum devoid of bickering or "nags".

Now that you know what your man wants, spoil him today.

- Adekanye Adeyinka Olajide.